I'm not entirely sure how to ask this but here goes.
I know that orgasming causes vaginal muscle spasms. I also know that It can (and usually does) cause an excess of fluid but what about cumming(for women)?
A couple of times during sex he's noticed a white fluid that came from me. Its not painful but its not something that's happened before.
I guess my real question is; whether or not this is normal?
Or if its Just a different kind of orgasm or maybe cumming? Because those times it felt amazing but there weren't the vaginal spasms that usually occur with the big O.
Answer:
Lucky you and WTG for your partner! He's hit your G-spot and yes it is VERY amazing! There are different positions where he may hit it. When it happens again make a mental note of the position. Try other positions as well (not in the same night, if you do, you are a lucky girl!). Compare the results. Usually a position where he gets deeper penetration will hit the "mark". No worries - just enjoy!
yes, it's normal and it's when you've had an orgasm! i've done this quite a few times now. it means you are very fertile and extremely excited!
There are glands that excrete a natural lube,
But women don't have gonads like men -- so if they do creme up it is not like male ejaculate.
just enjoy and dont worry.
its fine. women come too! both men and women do. theres nothing wrong with it. you're fine
that's normal for a girl to get when she's turned on and having sex, it's acually a very good sign. "cumming" has a wide variety of meanings. It can mean having an orgasm but it's also used for the natural lube women produce when they're sexually aroused, which doesn't have anything to do with orgasm. A lot of women squirt a clearish type fluid (produced by the skene's gland) when they orgasm and that is also referred to as c u m, even though it's a different fluid than what you experianced. obviously you know semen is alltogether different and that's referred to as c u m also... c u m is a broad blanket term
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
Orgasm trouble?
ok so my fiance and i have been together for a few years now. we started having sex about a year ago. we have probably had sex about 35 or 40 times. out of those times i have only had an orgasm 3 times. and the times i have had one, he pushes in really hard so his body is pressing my clit. but we try to do that and it doesnt always work. do you have any tips or reasons why this happens? or any positions that work the best to achieve a good orgasm easily? i just want to know if i am normal or not. thanks!!
Answer:
Your lucky you're not like me, i have never had an orgasm through intercourse. I've been married for 10 years and have two kids. The only way is through oral for me. Try that. It's your physiological make up that effects orgasms.
Yes, you are normal, don't worry.
try a lubricant or oral sex...
fingering works great too!
what do your orgasms feel like? they may not even be orgasms.
I got u hun, gimme 1 sec 2 post this link...
Few women can orgasm from intercourse alone(cosmo says 33%), there just arent enough nerve endings in the vagina. The reason you come when he fingers you is probably because hes curving them to hit ur g-spot, which can produce a WONDERFUL orgasm, but his penis is just making a straight shot.
Heres ur rememdy:
Before u guys have intercourse, have him stimulate you clitoris (another wonderful thing that can produce a wonderful orgasm) or g-spot, which ever gets you hotter. While you get worked up, hopefully he'll get worked up. When you feel yourself getting close to climax, have him enter you and you jus keep on that cl!t til you orgasm.
Or, have him work u up (or work urself up, or watch each other get worked up, what ever floats that boat!), then enter you and make shallow thrusts while you stimulate your clitoris (sometimes the deep thrusts take away from the stimualtion of ur clitoris). Once again, when u feel urself right at that point, tell him to beat it up (translation: go deep and hard)! Can you say SERIOUS orgasm? Happy humping!
PS Doggy style is the best for this method. U can stimulate urself easily, and he can get all up IN it from the back, lol!!
Why can't you stimulate yourself during sex to help you climax? I never thought of that until I was with my husband and it makes our sex so much more satisfying. Sometime I can climax just through penetration but sometimes I need "more". It's very normal. Don't worry.
Well, I'll bet you're normal. A lot of couples have trouble orgasming. It's actually been proven that only about a third of all women ever orgasm. If you're not opposed to it, I would suggest taking an OTC pill that stimulates sexual pleasure. If that doesn't work, you could try talking to your Gynecologist. They might have some reccomendations.
--Veronica
any position that will 'grind' your pelvises together will work to get you an orgasm. my favorite is my husband holding me against the wall in a standing position. gets me off everytime. good luck
I have the same problem... But i finnaly solved it. I used to pleasure myself while he had sex .. but that wasnt always sucsessful and took way to long, it became a hassle.. so i went to the local adult store and baught a mini vibrator.. soemthing really small not meant for insertion its just for the clitorus. IT WORKS wonders, i always can finish before him and i dont feel he has to wait on me to come.
hehehe i use to have this problem with my ex husband but the difference my ex husband didnt care and it sounds like your bf cares a lot to give you pleasure. my new husband always gives me an orgasm. this may make you blush but i have a very very small clit its smaller than a pea. seriously. and i never got off because my ex husband never paid attention and he didnt care. what worked for me is lots of for play. its actually a proven fact that it takes men 5 to 10 minutes to get arroused and women at least 15 to 20 minutes. most guys dont have the paitents they want wham bam thank you ma'am kind of a deal. thats one thing that worked was lots of fore play and we had to alternate sometimes he would be top and rub himself against me and sometimes i would be on top and rub against him. but believe me most women not all of them but most are sexually frustrated because they do not achieve sexual pleasure. believe me hunny you are not alone. i never had an orgasm in my life until i met my husband but the main difference between him and the ex is that he cared. hope this helps
Answer:
Your lucky you're not like me, i have never had an orgasm through intercourse. I've been married for 10 years and have two kids. The only way is through oral for me. Try that. It's your physiological make up that effects orgasms.
Yes, you are normal, don't worry.
try a lubricant or oral sex...
fingering works great too!
what do your orgasms feel like? they may not even be orgasms.
I got u hun, gimme 1 sec 2 post this link...
Few women can orgasm from intercourse alone(cosmo says 33%), there just arent enough nerve endings in the vagina. The reason you come when he fingers you is probably because hes curving them to hit ur g-spot, which can produce a WONDERFUL orgasm, but his penis is just making a straight shot.
Heres ur rememdy:
Before u guys have intercourse, have him stimulate you clitoris (another wonderful thing that can produce a wonderful orgasm) or g-spot, which ever gets you hotter. While you get worked up, hopefully he'll get worked up. When you feel yourself getting close to climax, have him enter you and you jus keep on that cl!t til you orgasm.
Or, have him work u up (or work urself up, or watch each other get worked up, what ever floats that boat!), then enter you and make shallow thrusts while you stimulate your clitoris (sometimes the deep thrusts take away from the stimualtion of ur clitoris). Once again, when u feel urself right at that point, tell him to beat it up (translation: go deep and hard)! Can you say SERIOUS orgasm? Happy humping!
PS Doggy style is the best for this method. U can stimulate urself easily, and he can get all up IN it from the back, lol!!
Why can't you stimulate yourself during sex to help you climax? I never thought of that until I was with my husband and it makes our sex so much more satisfying. Sometime I can climax just through penetration but sometimes I need "more". It's very normal. Don't worry.
Well, I'll bet you're normal. A lot of couples have trouble orgasming. It's actually been proven that only about a third of all women ever orgasm. If you're not opposed to it, I would suggest taking an OTC pill that stimulates sexual pleasure. If that doesn't work, you could try talking to your Gynecologist. They might have some reccomendations.
--Veronica
any position that will 'grind' your pelvises together will work to get you an orgasm. my favorite is my husband holding me against the wall in a standing position. gets me off everytime. good luck
I have the same problem... But i finnaly solved it. I used to pleasure myself while he had sex .. but that wasnt always sucsessful and took way to long, it became a hassle.. so i went to the local adult store and baught a mini vibrator.. soemthing really small not meant for insertion its just for the clitorus. IT WORKS wonders, i always can finish before him and i dont feel he has to wait on me to come.
hehehe i use to have this problem with my ex husband but the difference my ex husband didnt care and it sounds like your bf cares a lot to give you pleasure. my new husband always gives me an orgasm. this may make you blush but i have a very very small clit its smaller than a pea. seriously. and i never got off because my ex husband never paid attention and he didnt care. what worked for me is lots of for play. its actually a proven fact that it takes men 5 to 10 minutes to get arroused and women at least 15 to 20 minutes. most guys dont have the paitents they want wham bam thank you ma'am kind of a deal. thats one thing that worked was lots of fore play and we had to alternate sometimes he would be top and rub himself against me and sometimes i would be on top and rub against him. but believe me most women not all of them but most are sexually frustrated because they do not achieve sexual pleasure. believe me hunny you are not alone. i never had an orgasm in my life until i met my husband but the main difference between him and the ex is that he cared. hope this helps
Orgasm problems!! help me please!first one to answer gets best answer!!?
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Orgasm problem?
Anyone know how I can help myself get a vaginal orgasm while having sex with my husband? I get it by the clitoris but want it vaginally. I used to get it alot and now I just can't seem to get it.
Answer:
Try these exercises if you don't already.... could be that the old muscles down there need toning up a little bit
http://www.geocities.com/hotsprings/spa/...
sounds like he is not pleasuring you as much as he was try something new
You are just trying to hard. Begin by just relaxing and let nature take its course.
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I dno't know, I have the same problem since the birth of our daughter 3 1/2 years ago. If you find out let me know.
Tell him to get into your G-spot. This spot usually will lead to orgasm besides foreplay beforehand.
The positions that help most towards orgasm is doggy-style. More refence for you at this link,
http://mama71.orgasmo.hop.clickbank.net/...
ummm...
Answer:
Try these exercises if you don't already.... could be that the old muscles down there need toning up a little bit
http://www.geocities.com/hotsprings/spa/...
sounds like he is not pleasuring you as much as he was try something new
You are just trying to hard. Begin by just relaxing and let nature take its course.
.
I dno't know, I have the same problem since the birth of our daughter 3 1/2 years ago. If you find out let me know.
Tell him to get into your G-spot. This spot usually will lead to orgasm besides foreplay beforehand.
The positions that help most towards orgasm is doggy-style. More refence for you at this link,
http://mama71.orgasmo.hop.clickbank.net/...
ummm...
Organizing...?
What are some ways you stay organized in life, house, etc?
Answer:
Declutter. Declutter. Declutter. Getting rid of excess in your life will give you time, energy, money, space to enjoy what is left. You may have to declutter your activities. You may have to declutter your house. You may have to declutter your expenses.
You can have ANYthing you want, but you can't have EVERYthing you want. So make sure you have and do things that help you more than one way. Storage plus seating. Fun plus exercise. Learning plus quality time with the kids. Etc.
Spend (time energy money) on things that matter.
Rubbermaid containers are amazing!
Office Max or Staples has everything you could ever need for organization.
For documents, I recommend investing in a file cabinet to keep them safe.
There are these big small medium sized containers with drawers and you can just stick a label on a drawer and you know where everything is and goodbye clutter!
Buying storage space is great for things you just don't have room for and you never use.
Take a day for each room, go through them, and pick up those little things under your bed, or on the floor and just throw away what your never gonna use again.
life's been chaotic for you? running around the whole day, busy, but accomplished nothing? try to sort out the essentials from the non essentials, the urgent from the non-urgents, make a list(at the begining of the day) if it helps %26 stick to the list!! go through the list at the end of the day to see if it needs improvement, adjust the next day as you make the list, in life as in house or everything it needs a system to work, what works for me may not be the case for you, you need to figure out what works best for you!!
Answer:
Declutter. Declutter. Declutter. Getting rid of excess in your life will give you time, energy, money, space to enjoy what is left. You may have to declutter your activities. You may have to declutter your house. You may have to declutter your expenses.
You can have ANYthing you want, but you can't have EVERYthing you want. So make sure you have and do things that help you more than one way. Storage plus seating. Fun plus exercise. Learning plus quality time with the kids. Etc.
Spend (time energy money) on things that matter.
Rubbermaid containers are amazing!
Office Max or Staples has everything you could ever need for organization.
For documents, I recommend investing in a file cabinet to keep them safe.
There are these big small medium sized containers with drawers and you can just stick a label on a drawer and you know where everything is and goodbye clutter!
Buying storage space is great for things you just don't have room for and you never use.
Take a day for each room, go through them, and pick up those little things under your bed, or on the floor and just throw away what your never gonna use again.
life's been chaotic for you? running around the whole day, busy, but accomplished nothing? try to sort out the essentials from the non essentials, the urgent from the non-urgents, make a list(at the begining of the day) if it helps %26 stick to the list!! go through the list at the end of the day to see if it needs improvement, adjust the next day as you make the list, in life as in house or everything it needs a system to work, what works for me may not be the case for you, you need to figure out what works best for you!!
Oral contraception and ginkgo biloba?
Does anyone know if taking Ginkgo Biloba would effect oral contraception (the pill - Cilest)?
for example if it was added to a smoothie?
Ive bought a smoothie from Tescos and it says it has it in it, I'm such a worrier about my oral contraception and it not working becuase of something I've eaten/taken accidentally, so sorry if this is a silly question
Serious answers only PLEASE.
Answer:
as far as i know it a herbal remedy used by beauty therapists. it should not have any affect on the pill though.
to be safe speak to a pharmacist or doctor.
No sure but you would be well advised to ask your local pharmacist he or she would know the answer. Alway best to be on the safe side.
PS I did read sometime back that Ginko can be contra to some things.
Best checking with your local Chemist.If he speaks English that is
1st of all, remember everyone is different Angelique. My girl was on the pill %26 took a ginkgo biloba pill every day for months %26 months. It wasn't Cilest however she never became pregnant. Secondly, with regards to contraception on this overpopulated planet, there will never be any inquiries that fall under the heading of "silly questions". Carry on..
for example if it was added to a smoothie?
Ive bought a smoothie from Tescos and it says it has it in it, I'm such a worrier about my oral contraception and it not working becuase of something I've eaten/taken accidentally, so sorry if this is a silly question
Serious answers only PLEASE.
Answer:
as far as i know it a herbal remedy used by beauty therapists. it should not have any affect on the pill though.
to be safe speak to a pharmacist or doctor.
No sure but you would be well advised to ask your local pharmacist he or she would know the answer. Alway best to be on the safe side.
PS I did read sometime back that Ginko can be contra to some things.
Best checking with your local Chemist.If he speaks English that is
1st of all, remember everyone is different Angelique. My girl was on the pill %26 took a ginkgo biloba pill every day for months %26 months. It wasn't Cilest however she never became pregnant. Secondly, with regards to contraception on this overpopulated planet, there will never be any inquiries that fall under the heading of "silly questions". Carry on..
Optimus P.,Why are you so stupid?
If you're not smart enough to answer a question with some sort of intelligence, stay off the internet. We don't need or want your kind of remarks.
Answer:
Haha.. thanks for the 2 points man!!
why are you talking about Transformer.
Answer:
Haha.. thanks for the 2 points man!!
why are you talking about Transformer.
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