Ok, I am 22 years old. I have a 28 day cycle every month. I usually start in the afternoon or evening on Thursday. I typically get horrible cramps, throw up, and feel slight cramps for about a day then for 5 days i bleed then stop until the next month. I know not being on birth control you can't really control the days of your cycle. Well this month I started a day early(not a big deal) I got sick all day long (not just once like usual) and I only was on my period for about 2 1/2 - 3 days. it was lighter than usual. Do you think this is a sign of pregnancy? I don't want to waste money or time worrying if it isn't a big deal. My fiance and I are in a monagomous relationship and we always have unprotected sex. We have both been tested. We are both open to the idea of having children now. I am not wishing this or secretly obsessing I would like a general opinion. Please don't be rude or stupid. I know what I am getting myself into.
Answer:
When I first started with the birth control pills, I had a really short period. It happens sometimes. Since you are sexually active, you should get a pregnancy test. Some Ob/Gyn's prefer to run the blood test periodically, just in case. My doctor did that, to be sure. So, get the test, even if you want to have a child soon. That way you and your partner can prepare. Good luck!
It wouldn't hurt to take a pregnancy test.
It is very possible for you to be pregnant. This happened to me my first 2 pregnancies. I would certainly take a preg test, just to be sure.
it is a possiblity you could be pregnant, you should get an early pregnancy test and/or talk to your doctor about
It sounds as though you are just having a lighter periord than normal, but pregnancy tests aren't that expensive, so if it's like this next month go ahead and try one :)
Sometimes my periods are short and lighter too. But just to put your mind to rest, get an early pregnancy test or see your Doc.
Good luck :)
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
Only look if ur a girl[please no guys---please!]?
ok-im 12, when will my period come? I have been "developing" in the top half for over 2 years now, i have hair "down there" and in the pitts, every couple of days i see yello sticky stuff in my panties, my breast are getting bigger [and i wanna tell my mom i need to get bigger bras, because i wear a 32, and it is so tight a hurts like crap, but i don't know how to tell her] HELP---only answer if you are a girl or woman!NO BOYS PLEASE-oh and i asked my friend and she said about 6 week of months-but its been at lease 2 1/2 years!
Answer:
YOur hormones are definatley changing and there is no way to really tell when your period will actually come. It might be close or not. eveyone is different. The bra thing.just say to her what you did here. Wait until you are in the car alone going somewhere so that other fmaily can't hear or sneak in. Just say what you said.My bra is tight and hurts.I think I need a new one because I am growing. Growing children are no surprise to a mom. Also, your mom was a teen one day, and she had a first period. Just ask her (Once again, in the car alone is good becuase she also can't walk into the other room! AND you do not have to look at her in the eye.she will be watching the road.she might pull over then you can laugh at her... and then ask again. It is no secret. I bet she is waiting for you to talk to her and she just doesn't know how to aproach you. ANd you are right, NO BOYS! SO there!
don't freak out, you may not get your period for another year of two. Ask your mom if she could take you shopping, make it a "girls day out". When you are alone ask her for new bras and ask her when she got her period. The first time your mom got hers is a rough estimate of when to expect yours. Your mom had the very same questions as you have. We were all young girls once! Good Luck!
Well it sounds like ur gonna get it pretty soon. You should get your period 2-3 yrs after ur breasts start to grow. Just tell ur mom by going shopping and then try the braws on but tell her u need a new one they r too small
There is no reason to be embarrassed to tell your mom you need a bigger bra. It's a part of life every girl has to go through,( if you're lucky enough to need a bigger bra!) And don't be in such a hurry to get your period, cuz I promise you don't want it right now.
Have you recently taken antibiotics? If so, the stuff in your panties may be yeast. If not, and there is no odor, I wouldn't worry about it, it's probably just normal secretions.
As to the bra, just tell your mom they are too tight and is there a way to make them looser because they hurt you to wear them ? She'll get the idea, and take you to buy new ones.
My nickname may be Alex, but I am a grandmother. :)
I think ur going to start ur period thats what happen to me
You don't write like you are 12. Most 12 year olds write like they are idiots. So kudos to you if you really are the age you say you are. Anyways. Your period will come when it comes. Anywhere from age 11 to 15.
Your mom knows you are growing, she is expecting you to say something,,,
Hey mom, my bra is too tight now, can we go out and get me another bra, please?"
Having a sense of humor is a great Idea.
My daughter is 10 and she is just starting the boobs, and the hair, and she loves to laugh about getting a bra.
We talk openly about it all the time.
Be playful with your mom, say mom, check me out.. Im not sure what to do with these, and this bra is not cutting it. (make sure you say it with a smile on your face, and maybe a little laughter)
You should start your period anytime.. probably this year.
well it is hard to say when exactly sweetie but your close i can tell u that. that discharge u get is a good sign its close. talk to your mother she will understand i promise. im 16 and i still dont talk that well with my mom but its that kinda thing ur mom will really get trust me she can help u.....but if ud like to talk to me add me on yahoo messenger or email me
teenwitch09@yahoo.com
First of all, it's really sad that you feel you can't tell your mom you need a bigger bra. Do you have any money of your own that you could just go buy one? Are you embarrassed to tell your mom? Do you think she'll get mad? laugh at you? why can't you tell her.
I'm sure you'll start your periods soon. It sounds like all the right things are happening to your body. I wouldn't worry until you're 14 or so!! If you get too concerned maybe you should go to the dr. But that would probably involve talking to your mom about it.
Maybe you should sit down with your mom and seriously talk to her about your worries, your feelings. She might surprise you and be very understanding!
Good luck.
I had that same thing happen to me.
You gonna get it pretty soon.
I did the worst thing and never told my mom about my period until 3 days later, she blew up at me @_@
So when you get it tell your mom right away.
For your bras...
Just build up courage. Just say "Mom I REALLY need bigger bras!" I told my mom that she ended up getting me REALLY cute ones!
The yellow sticky stuff on your underwear is probably just a normal discharge most women get. The amount and thickness of the discharge varies dependent upon where you are in your cycle. In fact the discharge will become clear and stretchy during the time of the month where you can get pregnant. As for the bras --- just tell your mom the old ones are tight and you need new ones. I know it may be embarrassing but she will understand. She was your age once too.
Don't worry at all you are in the process... be patient i got my period when i was going to the 4th grade.. i wish i didn't have one because it can hurt like crap%26lt; not to scare you%26gt; everyone experiences something different.. tell your mom about all of your problems, she is the best person to help you.. i was scared to tell my mom also.. but i finally did.. and she helped out more than you can imagine...she taught me all there was too know and i'm grateful for that.. tell your mom and you will be glad.. trust her... i'm sure she trusts you to tell her when something is bothering you...by the way, my friend didn't get her period until she was 17... %26lt; we're all grown now
good luck sweetheart...
aah, im going through the same exact stuff hun. the boobs, the hair, AND the yellow sticky stuff. but im 14.. and it still hasnt come. and ive been wait since i was 11. stilll, not a drop. =) but im being patient... just tell your mom next time youre at target or walmart or the mall that you need a new bra!! so what if everyone around you heres.. chances are you probably never have to see them again. =) so just tell your mom you need a new bra and possibly so pads "just in case". as long as youre prepared youll be jsut fine. =)
WELL YOUR MOM SHOULD HAVE ALREADY TOLD U BOUT YOU PERIOD. OR U SHOULD HAVE AT LEAST HEARD BOUT IT IN 5TH GRADE B-CUZ I DID. WELL JUST TELL YOU MOM THAT UR STARTIN TO DEVELOP. IM PRETTY SURE SHE WILL UNDERSTAND. AND SHE PROBABLY TALK TO YOU ABOUT IT. AND BOUT YOU MENTRUAL CYCLE WELL IF ALL THIS STUFF HAS BEEN GOIN ON FOR 2 1/2 YRS. THEN IT WILL COME SOON. NOT TRYIN TO SCARY YOU BUT IT WILL. MAYBE LIK WEN UR 13. CUZ I REALLY COULDN'T TELL YOU EXACTLY WAT TIME AND DATE IT WILL START. SO JUST LOOK OUT FOR THA SYMPTOMS. U WILL GET CRAPS IN UR STOMACH. BLOTTING. THATS REALLY ALL I COULD TELL YOU IF U NEED MORE STUFF JUST WRITE BAKK.
since there is yellow stuff, you'll probably get it soon. my bra hurts more, i'm a 36 bb and it sucks. also, if your getting cramps then it prob. 3 -7 days. if u get moody then that is a f]definate.
Answer:
YOur hormones are definatley changing and there is no way to really tell when your period will actually come. It might be close or not. eveyone is different. The bra thing.just say to her what you did here. Wait until you are in the car alone going somewhere so that other fmaily can't hear or sneak in. Just say what you said.My bra is tight and hurts.I think I need a new one because I am growing. Growing children are no surprise to a mom. Also, your mom was a teen one day, and she had a first period. Just ask her (Once again, in the car alone is good becuase she also can't walk into the other room! AND you do not have to look at her in the eye.she will be watching the road.she might pull over then you can laugh at her... and then ask again. It is no secret. I bet she is waiting for you to talk to her and she just doesn't know how to aproach you. ANd you are right, NO BOYS! SO there!
don't freak out, you may not get your period for another year of two. Ask your mom if she could take you shopping, make it a "girls day out". When you are alone ask her for new bras and ask her when she got her period. The first time your mom got hers is a rough estimate of when to expect yours. Your mom had the very same questions as you have. We were all young girls once! Good Luck!
Well it sounds like ur gonna get it pretty soon. You should get your period 2-3 yrs after ur breasts start to grow. Just tell ur mom by going shopping and then try the braws on but tell her u need a new one they r too small
There is no reason to be embarrassed to tell your mom you need a bigger bra. It's a part of life every girl has to go through,( if you're lucky enough to need a bigger bra!) And don't be in such a hurry to get your period, cuz I promise you don't want it right now.
Have you recently taken antibiotics? If so, the stuff in your panties may be yeast. If not, and there is no odor, I wouldn't worry about it, it's probably just normal secretions.
As to the bra, just tell your mom they are too tight and is there a way to make them looser because they hurt you to wear them ? She'll get the idea, and take you to buy new ones.
My nickname may be Alex, but I am a grandmother. :)
I think ur going to start ur period thats what happen to me
You don't write like you are 12. Most 12 year olds write like they are idiots. So kudos to you if you really are the age you say you are. Anyways. Your period will come when it comes. Anywhere from age 11 to 15.
Your mom knows you are growing, she is expecting you to say something,,,
Hey mom, my bra is too tight now, can we go out and get me another bra, please?"
Having a sense of humor is a great Idea.
My daughter is 10 and she is just starting the boobs, and the hair, and she loves to laugh about getting a bra.
We talk openly about it all the time.
Be playful with your mom, say mom, check me out.. Im not sure what to do with these, and this bra is not cutting it. (make sure you say it with a smile on your face, and maybe a little laughter)
You should start your period anytime.. probably this year.
well it is hard to say when exactly sweetie but your close i can tell u that. that discharge u get is a good sign its close. talk to your mother she will understand i promise. im 16 and i still dont talk that well with my mom but its that kinda thing ur mom will really get trust me she can help u.....but if ud like to talk to me add me on yahoo messenger or email me
teenwitch09@yahoo.com
First of all, it's really sad that you feel you can't tell your mom you need a bigger bra. Do you have any money of your own that you could just go buy one? Are you embarrassed to tell your mom? Do you think she'll get mad? laugh at you? why can't you tell her.
I'm sure you'll start your periods soon. It sounds like all the right things are happening to your body. I wouldn't worry until you're 14 or so!! If you get too concerned maybe you should go to the dr. But that would probably involve talking to your mom about it.
Maybe you should sit down with your mom and seriously talk to her about your worries, your feelings. She might surprise you and be very understanding!
Good luck.
I had that same thing happen to me.
You gonna get it pretty soon.
I did the worst thing and never told my mom about my period until 3 days later, she blew up at me @_@
So when you get it tell your mom right away.
For your bras...
Just build up courage. Just say "Mom I REALLY need bigger bras!" I told my mom that she ended up getting me REALLY cute ones!
The yellow sticky stuff on your underwear is probably just a normal discharge most women get. The amount and thickness of the discharge varies dependent upon where you are in your cycle. In fact the discharge will become clear and stretchy during the time of the month where you can get pregnant. As for the bras --- just tell your mom the old ones are tight and you need new ones. I know it may be embarrassing but she will understand. She was your age once too.
Don't worry at all you are in the process... be patient i got my period when i was going to the 4th grade.. i wish i didn't have one because it can hurt like crap%26lt; not to scare you%26gt; everyone experiences something different.. tell your mom about all of your problems, she is the best person to help you.. i was scared to tell my mom also.. but i finally did.. and she helped out more than you can imagine...she taught me all there was too know and i'm grateful for that.. tell your mom and you will be glad.. trust her... i'm sure she trusts you to tell her when something is bothering you...by the way, my friend didn't get her period until she was 17... %26lt; we're all grown now
good luck sweetheart...
aah, im going through the same exact stuff hun. the boobs, the hair, AND the yellow sticky stuff. but im 14.. and it still hasnt come. and ive been wait since i was 11. stilll, not a drop. =) but im being patient... just tell your mom next time youre at target or walmart or the mall that you need a new bra!! so what if everyone around you heres.. chances are you probably never have to see them again. =) so just tell your mom you need a new bra and possibly so pads "just in case". as long as youre prepared youll be jsut fine. =)
WELL YOUR MOM SHOULD HAVE ALREADY TOLD U BOUT YOU PERIOD. OR U SHOULD HAVE AT LEAST HEARD BOUT IT IN 5TH GRADE B-CUZ I DID. WELL JUST TELL YOU MOM THAT UR STARTIN TO DEVELOP. IM PRETTY SURE SHE WILL UNDERSTAND. AND SHE PROBABLY TALK TO YOU ABOUT IT. AND BOUT YOU MENTRUAL CYCLE WELL IF ALL THIS STUFF HAS BEEN GOIN ON FOR 2 1/2 YRS. THEN IT WILL COME SOON. NOT TRYIN TO SCARY YOU BUT IT WILL. MAYBE LIK WEN UR 13. CUZ I REALLY COULDN'T TELL YOU EXACTLY WAT TIME AND DATE IT WILL START. SO JUST LOOK OUT FOR THA SYMPTOMS. U WILL GET CRAPS IN UR STOMACH. BLOTTING. THATS REALLY ALL I COULD TELL YOU IF U NEED MORE STUFF JUST WRITE BAKK.
since there is yellow stuff, you'll probably get it soon. my bra hurts more, i'm a 36 bb and it sucks. also, if your getting cramps then it prob. 3 -7 days. if u get moody then that is a f]definate.
Only Girls answer--- about dreams?
From previous questions it is clear that girls(not all but at least some) have also Wet dreams(more accurately) Erotic dreams.
can you girls tell what kind of that dream is ... i mean you feel being receiveng sex from a guy or something other? Please answer honestly...?
Answer:
It's exactly how you expressed it . Those are "exciting dreams."
maybe it depends on the girl. could be recieving sex or can be maybe jus dreaming about a lover (no sex involved)
Usually something sexual from a guy I like, sometimes sex, sometimes other things...usually a character from a film LOL, sometimes people I know, or people from real life who I only vaguely know which makes it kind of weird. Fun though!
can you girls tell what kind of that dream is ... i mean you feel being receiveng sex from a guy or something other? Please answer honestly...?
Answer:
It's exactly how you expressed it . Those are "exciting dreams."
maybe it depends on the girl. could be recieving sex or can be maybe jus dreaming about a lover (no sex involved)
Usually something sexual from a guy I like, sometimes sex, sometimes other things...usually a character from a film LOL, sometimes people I know, or people from real life who I only vaguely know which makes it kind of weird. Fun though!
Only for those who have gone breast augmentation,PLS advise my foreign friend- a good surgeon and cost...?
She's coming to the Philippines because of this.., as she heard that it's cheaper here than in her country. Also, any doctors that you can recommend, BUDGET details and how long is the process and recovery to determine her stay in the Philippines...
Answer:
Breast augmentation surgery is very safe nowadays. My cousin got her breast reduction, tummy tuck and facelift surgery in India by the company called Tour2india4health Consultants .The Price for the surgery she paid in India was very less. She paid 30% of the cost she was quoted in America.
Tour2india4health Consultants is very famous in India. They arrange cosmetic and plastic surgery for foreigners in India. I read a lot about them in the Newspapers and about their patient stories. They arrange financing for USA, Canadian, UK and other international patients who plan to have surgery abroad for low price, as the breast reduction, tummy tuck, facelift and other cosmetic surgery is not covered by insurance. They also have photos pasted of their International patients. You can checkout their website. There are huge cost savings. As a doctor I personally believe that surgery can be easily handled in India, as the quality of healthcare available In India is simply best in the world. The surgeons are USA/UK trained and facilities are 5 star.
http://www.tour2india4health.com...
Hope this helps.
Inform her that I and millions of other guys find fake boobs a MUCH bigger turn off than small or non-existant racks. I wouldn't even date a girl with silicone.
If she is doing it to try to get a guy or because she is teased tell her DON'T DO IT!
Guys like all sizes and hate the feel of implants.
Look to this site for recommendations for plastic surgeons and how much they are as well as a support board.
http://www.breasthealthonline.com...
My friend in Illinois just paid around 7000 for hers.
it cost 20,00
Answer:
Breast augmentation surgery is very safe nowadays. My cousin got her breast reduction, tummy tuck and facelift surgery in India by the company called Tour2india4health Consultants .The Price for the surgery she paid in India was very less. She paid 30% of the cost she was quoted in America.
Tour2india4health Consultants is very famous in India. They arrange cosmetic and plastic surgery for foreigners in India. I read a lot about them in the Newspapers and about their patient stories. They arrange financing for USA, Canadian, UK and other international patients who plan to have surgery abroad for low price, as the breast reduction, tummy tuck, facelift and other cosmetic surgery is not covered by insurance. They also have photos pasted of their International patients. You can checkout their website. There are huge cost savings. As a doctor I personally believe that surgery can be easily handled in India, as the quality of healthcare available In India is simply best in the world. The surgeons are USA/UK trained and facilities are 5 star.
http://www.tour2india4health.com...
Hope this helps.
Inform her that I and millions of other guys find fake boobs a MUCH bigger turn off than small or non-existant racks. I wouldn't even date a girl with silicone.
If she is doing it to try to get a guy or because she is teased tell her DON'T DO IT!
Guys like all sizes and hate the feel of implants.
Look to this site for recommendations for plastic surgeons and how much they are as well as a support board.
http://www.breasthealthonline.com...
My friend in Illinois just paid around 7000 for hers.
it cost 20,00
Only for girls (HELP)?
IM ON MY PERIOD AND MY STOMACH HURTS ALOT AND I KEEP GOING TO THE BATHROOM! WHAT CAN I DO TO MAKE ME FEEL BETTER? PLZ HELP!!!!!!
Answer:
hit some tylenol and get a heat pack apply that for a couple of hours and that should help
Pray.
drink hot tea. take a tylenol. use bengay, it burns but it'll work. and sleep. if it hurts again, do the same progress. and try walking it out a little. maybe you have a blood clots. blodd clots are blood that are thick and it will cause you pain if its not out. email me so i can explain it better.
birth control pills they HELP SO MUCH!!!!!
A heating pad or a hot water bottle for your stomach. Or if you have two of them, put one on your lower back and one on your stomach. If you have some Midol or other pain reliever, take it! Even Tylenol will do.
Then try to relax as much as possible. Read a book or watch TV to take your mind off it. Sometimes a cup of hot tea helps, too.
In the future, you might want to talk to your doctor about going on the pill. Some birth control pills really help make cramps less painful.
i go through the same thing with my period. best thing to do is apply a heating pad if you dont have one with you, just dip a towel in hot water and apply it to your stomach. try to do this while resting, it'll help a lot. as for going to the bathroom, the only thing you can do to prevent that is taking some pills. try asking your doctor about some prescription pills especially made for that- my doctor prescribed Naproxen for me. if you take it the two days before your period or as soon as you notice signs of your period, it'll prevent the pain as well as the bowel movements. you could prob even find some naproxen over the counter from any drug store. hope this helps
Answer:
hit some tylenol and get a heat pack apply that for a couple of hours and that should help
Pray.
drink hot tea. take a tylenol. use bengay, it burns but it'll work. and sleep. if it hurts again, do the same progress. and try walking it out a little. maybe you have a blood clots. blodd clots are blood that are thick and it will cause you pain if its not out. email me so i can explain it better.
birth control pills they HELP SO MUCH!!!!!
A heating pad or a hot water bottle for your stomach. Or if you have two of them, put one on your lower back and one on your stomach. If you have some Midol or other pain reliever, take it! Even Tylenol will do.
Then try to relax as much as possible. Read a book or watch TV to take your mind off it. Sometimes a cup of hot tea helps, too.
In the future, you might want to talk to your doctor about going on the pill. Some birth control pills really help make cramps less painful.
i go through the same thing with my period. best thing to do is apply a heating pad if you dont have one with you, just dip a towel in hot water and apply it to your stomach. try to do this while resting, it'll help a lot. as for going to the bathroom, the only thing you can do to prevent that is taking some pills. try asking your doctor about some prescription pills especially made for that- my doctor prescribed Naproxen for me. if you take it the two days before your period or as soon as you notice signs of your period, it'll prevent the pain as well as the bowel movements. you could prob even find some naproxen over the counter from any drug store. hope this helps
One-a-day for women make me sick...?
I get nauseated/warm whenever I take one. Why? What should I take instead?
Answer:
It could very well be the actual brand, ONE A DAY, that is making you sick. However, before you switch to another vitamin, try eating a full meal and then taking your vitamin (s) 30 minutes after you eat. Taking vitamins on an empty stomach does make you nausated. If taking a vitamin on a full stomach doesnt work and the feeling doesnt go away, try a new vitamin or talk to your family doctor.
Research vitamins that are well absorbed by the body and choose one that is well absorbed by the body. One a day is not one that is well absorbed. You can consider looking up mela vita.
Answer:
It could very well be the actual brand, ONE A DAY, that is making you sick. However, before you switch to another vitamin, try eating a full meal and then taking your vitamin (s) 30 minutes after you eat. Taking vitamins on an empty stomach does make you nausated. If taking a vitamin on a full stomach doesnt work and the feeling doesnt go away, try a new vitamin or talk to your family doctor.
Research vitamins that are well absorbed by the body and choose one that is well absorbed by the body. One a day is not one that is well absorbed. You can consider looking up mela vita.
Saturday, October 31, 2009
One word. Periods. How to deal with them, and guys at the same time ? HELP?
Okay getting my period sucks. And, most girls don't like to talk about it but i don't mind, so open answers please. I got mine in 3rd grade and mine is heavy, with really bad cramps and headaches, and backaches. I get really short tempered. So what do you tell a guy when you have it %26 they want to do something active with you, but don't like talking about periods or never have talked about it with you. I can't say "i don't really feel like it right now " anymore. i've used that to much. Please help !
Answer:
Try to take a calcium supplement like viactive, I find that it really helps. Start Advil right as you start cramping, don't wait until you are really hurting to start. Keep on a "every 6 hour dose" schedule. Cramping alone can make you even more short tempered.
When someone asks you to do something when you don't feel like it, simply say, "sorry but I have other plans", which is not a lie because if you are like me, you plan to stay on the sofa watching the tele or playing on the computer with a heating pad taking the edge off. If it is your boyfriend, you are going to have to address it at some point. The best thing to do is just to say, "Sorry, it is not a good weekend for that. Buutttt.If you want to stay in and rub my feet and back, and bring me chocolate on demand, then sure" If he's not totally daft, he should catch on at some point.
If by "active" you mean sex, then you should be able to talk to him about it anyway. If you are that intimate, then talking about your period shouldn't be that big of a deal... if you find that you are not able to discuss it with someone you are having sex with, then you should not be having sex anyway!
two words, same here. lol, my boyfriend knows now about when I'm haven mine because we talked aout it, I didn't think he would want to and thought he'd be grossed out but I just gave him the option of talking about it and he could see I wanted to so we did for like an hour. We talk alot though, just say, "Listen, I'm on my period and I'm not in the mood right now okay?" he'll understand!
3rd grade!! Geez, that really sucks. I'm wondering how old you are now?
First thing I would suggest you do is start taking some type of ibuprofen about a week prior to your period. This may ease up on some of your symptoms that you are having.
As far as boys, try and stay away from them if possible when you are feeling this PMS. If not possible and you want to use excuses but you don't want them to know about your period because you just don't feel comfortable talking about it. Make up something really wild. Some suggestions: I have cousins or aunt's visiting that I need to spend time with. (usually boys get this and realize that you are on your period) Try saying that you have to spend the week preparing for exams or something clever.
Hope you have better luck with your period. You will find that it get's easier to talk about as you get older. Even better, it get's easier to talk about to strangers.
Another thing to look into is the type of sanitary products that you are using. I personally use a product called "Instead". You don't even know you are on your period most of the time. Check it out at the site below.
Good Luck girlfriend!
Say it is a bad day or you are having some problems
I think it depends on how well you know the guy.
If he's a boyfriend and you are sleeping with him, then I think you should tell him the truth. Anyone who is supposedly mature enough to have sex should be mature enough to handle bodily functions.
Anyone that you aren't really intimate with doesn't need to know. If you are invited to do something, couldn't you just say you already have plans? This method has the added bonus of giving the impression that you are a busy girl with a full life. Then, if you know when your period will be over, you could just suggest a plan for later on when it's gone.
I have the same 2 words 'same here'.My boyfriend knows when I'm on my period b/c i get very short tempered and I snap alot,we've discussed it though.He understands it well.Just try 2 make a joke about it at first and then just talk 2 him.
Just let him know you're on your period, and ask him very, very politely if he would give you a little space, because you love him, and don't want to hurt his feelings while your hormones are on the rampage, okay?
P.S. The 'because you love him' part is important, because it makes it seem like you want to be with him, you just can't at that particular moment.
It also makes him think you are considerate and respectful of his feeling, and he may appreciate you more.
No promises though.
Answer:
Try to take a calcium supplement like viactive, I find that it really helps. Start Advil right as you start cramping, don't wait until you are really hurting to start. Keep on a "every 6 hour dose" schedule. Cramping alone can make you even more short tempered.
When someone asks you to do something when you don't feel like it, simply say, "sorry but I have other plans", which is not a lie because if you are like me, you plan to stay on the sofa watching the tele or playing on the computer with a heating pad taking the edge off. If it is your boyfriend, you are going to have to address it at some point. The best thing to do is just to say, "Sorry, it is not a good weekend for that. Buutttt.If you want to stay in and rub my feet and back, and bring me chocolate on demand, then sure" If he's not totally daft, he should catch on at some point.
If by "active" you mean sex, then you should be able to talk to him about it anyway. If you are that intimate, then talking about your period shouldn't be that big of a deal... if you find that you are not able to discuss it with someone you are having sex with, then you should not be having sex anyway!
two words, same here. lol, my boyfriend knows now about when I'm haven mine because we talked aout it, I didn't think he would want to and thought he'd be grossed out but I just gave him the option of talking about it and he could see I wanted to so we did for like an hour. We talk alot though, just say, "Listen, I'm on my period and I'm not in the mood right now okay?" he'll understand!
3rd grade!! Geez, that really sucks. I'm wondering how old you are now?
First thing I would suggest you do is start taking some type of ibuprofen about a week prior to your period. This may ease up on some of your symptoms that you are having.
As far as boys, try and stay away from them if possible when you are feeling this PMS. If not possible and you want to use excuses but you don't want them to know about your period because you just don't feel comfortable talking about it. Make up something really wild. Some suggestions: I have cousins or aunt's visiting that I need to spend time with. (usually boys get this and realize that you are on your period) Try saying that you have to spend the week preparing for exams or something clever.
Hope you have better luck with your period. You will find that it get's easier to talk about as you get older. Even better, it get's easier to talk about to strangers.
Another thing to look into is the type of sanitary products that you are using. I personally use a product called "Instead". You don't even know you are on your period most of the time. Check it out at the site below.
Good Luck girlfriend!
Say it is a bad day or you are having some problems
I think it depends on how well you know the guy.
If he's a boyfriend and you are sleeping with him, then I think you should tell him the truth. Anyone who is supposedly mature enough to have sex should be mature enough to handle bodily functions.
Anyone that you aren't really intimate with doesn't need to know. If you are invited to do something, couldn't you just say you already have plans? This method has the added bonus of giving the impression that you are a busy girl with a full life. Then, if you know when your period will be over, you could just suggest a plan for later on when it's gone.
I have the same 2 words 'same here'.My boyfriend knows when I'm on my period b/c i get very short tempered and I snap alot,we've discussed it though.He understands it well.Just try 2 make a joke about it at first and then just talk 2 him.
Just let him know you're on your period, and ask him very, very politely if he would give you a little space, because you love him, and don't want to hurt his feelings while your hormones are on the rampage, okay?
P.S. The 'because you love him' part is important, because it makes it seem like you want to be with him, you just can't at that particular moment.
It also makes him think you are considerate and respectful of his feeling, and he may appreciate you more.
No promises though.
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